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Mythbusting the Human Mind, Condition (Starts 18:18 with Isabella Wang )

Uploaded 6/12/2022, approx. 1 hour 10 minute read

To be short, I have to talk in detail.

To give you a short answer, I think it's destiny. I can sense this when I was little, and I came this way subconsciously.

It's not determined by me in a sense. Other way just doesn't work for me. I don't enjoy it.

I work in marketing, work in business, and never really enjoyed that much.

Until, thanks to COVID, I had the opportunity to be home more.

I started writing stuff. After two articles, I thought I could be an author, so I decided to write a book.

I know that's a very big leap. This journey just completely transformed me.

I would say the past few years. That's where I landed on this interview. I landed on this book.

I was almost reborn as another person based on the previous version of me, my understanding from the world.

I'm always into this region of humanity. If I have to say it in a broad way, not to be specific. Always into this human thinking.

What interests you more? People or their actions and choices?

I didn't know they're separate, but what interests you more?

Because you could observe the actions and choices of people without knowing much about the in-depth psychology. You could attribute them all kinds of motivations, which are facile and easy.

But actually, there's a big depth.

Some people focus on the depth and some people focus on the facades, the appearance. Which is it for you?

Death. Which one is the death again?

Is the human thinking or the people, the human thinking?

People are in archaeological sites. They have layers from different periods in history. These layers are underground. They're invisible, but they shape the contours of the land.

People don't realize that they are walking on an ancient Roman road or that their homes are built on top of homes.

It's the same with human psychology. We have layers and layers of personal history.

We think that we have rational choices and a decision-making process which is structured and algorithmic, but actually we are driven by this archaeology.

This is why we have today the bargaining field of behavioral economics, which essentially says that people are not rational agents.

They are driven and motivated by what Freud used to call deep, deep psychology.

So in this case, you could come and see a neighborhood and say, well, let me describe the neighborhood. There's this street, there are traffic lights, there's this house, there's these gardens, and that's okay. Or you could come to the neighborhood and say, okay, there is this neighborhood, but before that, there was a colonial neighborhood, and underneath it, there's a Roman neighborhood, and underneath it, and so that's the depth psychology.

Wow.

Oh, wow. I like that glass of wine. Is it dry or asleep?

So do I. I'm attached to it.

I'm attached to it. One glass a day?

It's dry, of course.

I like dry. Nice.

First, guys, I enjoy a glass of wine on my talk. I like it.

Yeah, wine. It's a part of life, a pleasant part of life.

Yes.

Do you, were you born in the United States?

No.

You were not?

No. Do I look like, what do you think were I born?

Oh, there's no such thing.

There's no such thing as an American look. I mean, it's very diverse, very diverse.

Yes. You might as well be born in San Francisco or something. It's not, doesn't mean anything.

The way I look doesn't mean anything.

Thank you.

So where were you born, if I may?

Can you guess? I'm sure you've met people.

Well, I thought maybe, I thought maybe mainland China, but I'm not sure.

You're not sure.

Okay. I am, I am born there. And my last name kind of soaked me already. The last name, it's a very typical Chinese one.

Oh, there's a huge Chinese diaspora. Yeah. All over the world.

So you might as well have come from Paris.

Yes, you're so right. Yes. Yes.

I like your, deep understanding of this thing.

Yes.

It could be from everywhere. You're right.

The name doesn't mean anything, but they were born in mainland China and then you made all the way to the United States as a student.

Yes. That's wonderful. And then you decided to stay.

Yes. Why?

I mean, I feel good. I can't describe exactly why, but in a general way, I feel good physically, mentally. I can't say why, of course, some reasons, a nice environment, and also maybe the culture. And I'm not too sure now after being here for so many years, I think deep in me, I'm definitely an Easterner.

I possess those Eastern culture mentality, but I'm also very enjoying the, just the way people communicate freely. It's also very deep in me. I can't hide that. I just feel more myself in every way.

Yes.

So if you had been in China, you would not have fit in. For sure.

For now, for sure. But even before, I wouldn't think it would be the best place for me.

I think so.

Sorry, you've made all the right choices.

Well, also thanks to my parents. I can say I'm the one fully made a decision on this. But my parents definitely didn't expect me to be here for so long. They were sending me here just for school and they were expecting me to be back after several years. Didn't happen.

So you have no siblings. No, you know, one child policy, right? Even though they changed it.

But no one wants the second child.

No, no, no, no, the second or the third child. No, up to three or low.

Oh, well, you know better than me.

Yes.

But no one wants children anywhere. Not only in China.

It's a general trend. Childbearing is the gloves in all industrialized nations.

Yes. The replacement replacement rate is under 2.1. So that means the populations were shrink dramatically by 2050. Not only shrink but become much older. About 25 to 50% of the population depending on the country.

I couldn't see your whole face.

Many people would appreciate this. Many people would be very happy with this.

You're complaining. Why are you complaining?

I have to. I want to see you. All right. Here I am.

My entire face.

I like your presence. I like this cozy space that you have. And I love it because I've been watching your video. That's exactly where you are when you're shooting all these YouTube and it feels so special to see this in person. Virtually in person.

Thank you. I'm surprised by your background.

Why?

Tell me, please.

It's very minimalistic.

It's very minimalistic. Interesting. What do you mean?

It's minimalistic in the sense that you have the mesh wire, shared.

Oh, you mean this background.

Yeah. The background behind you.

Thank you. It's very minimalistic.

It's clean. It's not cluttered. It's clean. It's straight lines. It's very cobwezy. It's very it.

So it's very modern.

Thank you.

Thank you. You're absolutely right. It's a minimal style.

It's very modern. Not even post-modern, but modern. It's functionalism, which is typically an architecture function.

It's very nice.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Yes, I like it. It's clean.

It's clean.

Yes. Simple. I wasn't like this before COVID, by the way.

You weren't like that before.

I wasn't into a minimal style, a minimalistic style, or I wasn't aware.

But now I'm just more and more.

I don't want distractions. I want things to be, if I can get two, I don't want three.

Yeah. Oh, who knows?

Maybe I'll change.

You can tell me. Maybe I'll change one day.

You're a bad consumer. You don't want three. You want two.

Yes.

Then they destroy the global economy.

Yes.

People like me should be banned. Banned, absolutely.

Banished into an island with two pound trees, not three.

And may I ask, do you don't mind that I'm asking you a question?

I'm not hiding. You can tell from my face if I don't enjoy the conversation.

So if I don't show that, okay. I'm just intrigued by you honestly.

I'm intrigued by you, especially after I began to read the book.

So what, what did you study? You studied marketing and economics, economics. And you have a degree in economics.

Yes. Bachelor. The bachelor's degree.

Yeah. You know, you know, for the first 25 years of my career, I was an economist and I was economic advisor to governments. I worked with the IMF and WHO, World Bank and so on, on development economics. I was into economics and now I'm a professor of finance, actually. And I'm a professor of psychology too, both.

I don't see much difference, mind you. Finance is a branch of psychology.

Yes. Under it. Yes.

And so is economics.

Interesting.

There's a confluence of psychology and economics. There's a field called behavioral economics.

Behavioral. Okay.

Did you ever study?

Did you ever have a look at it?

I don't know.

I think it would interest you greatly because it's a combination of psychology and economics.

Psychology and economics.

Yes. It's called behavioral economics.

And some of the proponents of behavioral economics lately won the Nobel prizes. So it's a well established mainstream branch of economics.

So if I were you, I'd never look at it because I think judging by what I've heard, I think might interest you a lot.

Oh, I have to trust that. I would definitely look it up.

I'm indeed in, in essence, I'm interesting a lot on meaning on things about human, the field, the end, all that type of things.

Do you think, I'm sorry, I didn't understand what you just said. Would you mind repeating?

Yes. In deep, I think I'm very interested in the meaning, the destiny, the origin.

I think origin could means the end, the end of human, of the world.

Where humanity is going.

That's what you mean.

Yes. And also I just genuinely enjoying human connections. I do businesses. I, you know, I do all this economic stuff. I don't really enjoy them.

I don't know why.

You enjoy working with people.

I enjoy the genuine connection between people. I'm meaningful things on top of it.

Just benefit everyone in general, you know, as a consequence, not even a purpose.

Yes.

But do you enjoy the human connection or human connectivity? Do you enjoy it personally or do you enjoy to observe it as an observer?

Both. I do it at the same time. I don't.

You're a good networker.

I'm a people person.

Yeah. I enjoy being around, being around people actually recharged me and by myself for too long, drains me.

The opposite for other people. I know I need a balance of both, but I'm probably more a people person.

That's not a bad thing.

We need more of that because culture and society, modern civilization is pushing in the opposite direction. We are encouraged to detach and disconnect.

Yeah. So work from home is an example.

Self-sufficient entertainment. You're at home. You have Netflix. You don't need anyone.

Social media, social media. These are all examples of, I mean, anti social media. These are all examples of incentives. People are incentivized to be alone.

And I think the reason is a bit sinister, a bit conspiratorial, because when people are alone, they consume more. There is a compensatory mechanism.

When you're really, really alone, you feel not so good and you try to compensate by buying things.

By adding form of things.

Self gratification.

Yes. So you're buying things. And you're also much more on, for example, social media. So they can monetize your eyeballs. Social media has an incentive to keep you alone. Absolutely.

Because if you have a boyfriend, you will dedicate your time to a boyfriend and you will not, you will not enrich Mark Zuckerberg. Very simple. It's inner or especially exclusive proposition.

If you have a life, you have a life, you're not on Facebook. So they don't want you to have a life. They want you to be on Facebook.

You know, all this is in my book. Not as deep as what you're talking. That's why I guess I was originally drawn to you.


This conversation is going on so well already. I don't even want to break it and start an interview or stuff. We can just continue. I know how to transition this talk.

No, we can celebrate because I would like to have something with you, some kind of interview or something, but that doesn't have to be an interview.

Yeah. A conversational, I like that the flow, it really flows well. You kind of naturally go into the topic I wanted to ask you. So I really enjoy it.

Let's start to record. And if you have any questions and you can start with questions and we will take the questions and convert them into a conversation. Is that okay?

So I'm starting to record. Are you recording already?

I am.

Oh, you are. You are. This is not nice. There's no disclosure here. I could have said horrible things.

You could have blackmailed me after. You could have blackmailed me after.

Okay. You're recording. Great. Can you send me your file after that?

Yes. I'm recording the screen, the screen recording and please also record on your end.

So we have, I will record right now, but we have missed quite a lot. So can you send me your file?

Absolutely. And you have the full rights to use it.

I don't mind at all.

I want to use it. I have a channel with 200 and something thousand subscribers and 50 million views. And I want to upload it there.

Okay. So I'm starting to record, but you will also send me a file, which is more complete.

Here we go.

Well, I heard recording in progress.

So now you have to put on your official face because recording is in progress.

You will see it not much different. All right.

That's good.

I wish I could do better.

Yeah. So, okay. We'll, we'll start.

Oh, let's just talk. Let's just ask me, ask me what you want to ask. Let's see where it takes.

I want to greet you no matter what.

First, Sam, thank you for being here, taking this time. I really appreciate it.

My pleasure. Always. Thank you.

Thank you.

Thank you for referring to my work in your book, Digital Mind of Tomorrow. I, it's on my reading list. Actually I was tempted. I started to read it and I'm going to read it in my forthcoming trip to Romania. So this is my reading material then, but thank you all the same for sending me a copy.

Thank you so much. You are a big part of it.

I cannot not sending to you. I'm very excited. I would say also looking forward to talking with you. I'll explain why in a sense, this book or everything I've been doing lately, it's to observe or we talk about it to see the world through, including this book through the lenses of business, technology, psychology, sociology, and philosophy.

And, um, based on quite a list, quite a list. There's a reason I kind of put this combination is not randomly and, based on my observation of you and you were one of the few people, or I would even say probably the first person I came across that kind of touched on all of them, in the decent way, not just, you know, I know about them.

You are, I have it here in case I forgot, you are a writer, you are an author and you are a professor of psychology and you have a PhD in philosophy and physics. Correct me if I did my wrong research.

And you also used to be in business and you also told me about that yourself, you're in economics and you know about technology. Plenty of your videos showed me that and you not just know on the surface, you know deep in roots, how it affects the world, meaning the humans.

That's because I was Israel's first venture capitalist. So when I was much younger, I started the venture capital industry in Israel, which is now second in size to United States. And I was also a stockbroker. So I learned about the nexus, the confluence between finance and technology.

Right. And, um, so my background is highly unusual because the first 20 years of my life I've been into physics and philosophy and I finished my doctorate. I'm also a medical doctor. So I finished medicine, but then I gave up on academia and I went to business and then within business, I focused on commodity trading and from commodity trading, I branched out into finance and from finance to venture capital and technology. And I'm talking like 50 years ago, 40 years ago. That's when it was not that popular.

And then the last 25 years, I'm dedicated to psychology. And in between I was an economist and economic advisor to governments. If you live as long as I have, you will also have nine or 10 careers. That's totally normal. Don't be too impressed. It reflects my age.

Thank you. Thank you for being so humble.

Um, I do know people also work their entire life on one occupation and also people like you. I appreciate both of them.

And, yeah, thank you for sharing.

And now we know you, quite a lot based on your professional background.

This is a question I ask almost all my guests.

Now tell us about you as a person with three words, meaning if you have to choose three words to describe yourself, what are those words and why you chose them?

I am fiercely protective of the truth. I'm addicted to the truth and I will make personal sacrifices. And unfortunately I will sacrifice other people as well. Their emotions in order to propagate the truth. But I'm not sure that I'm doing it out of a moralistic judgment or a moral cognition. I think possibly there's a little sadism in there because the truth hurts. And I know that the truth hurts because I'm a psychologist and yet I continue to wield it as a blunt instrument.

So I don't think I should be praised with it, but that's the first attribute.

The second attribute is, um, fairness and justice. I'm very exercised when they're lacking.

And the third is the surrealistic and supernatural belief in the ability to communicate information, truth, facts to people, despite all evidence to the contrary. And despite everything we know in psychology about cognitive biases and cognitive distortions, which tell us that people are not open to, control facts to modify their opinions, to alter their behavior. People are not malleable. They're not flexible. They're very rigid, extremely rigid.

And when the rigidity reaches a certain point, it's called personality.

Most people are on the verge of personality. So that's why it's very difficult.

But everyone around me is a narcissist, which of course is not true, but everyone around you could be narcissistic, could have a narcissistic style as Lynn Sperry calls it, because people are always on the verge of a personality.

So that because they're very inflexible, they're not open.

That's, these are my three traits, I think.

Interesting.

Interesting. Thank you. Thank you for open up for us.


The fourth is I like red, dry red wine, red wine, the megapine, the megapine. That's a megapine.

It's definitely a megapine in terms of wine.

It's a mega, mega, mega megapine.

Thank you. Thank you. So now ready for the questions. Always.

Always. Are you ready for the answers?

That's the question.

Always.

We make a perfect pair.

So hear me out. So what's your understanding of the following terms, following words, and what is your understanding of their relationship among them?

These are the words, heart, mind, brain, intelligence, and consciousness five. Sorry if it's too long. I want to hear out your understanding of them and what do you consider the relationship among them?

Intelligence is the capacity to observe connections between ostensibly separate and disparate phenomena and objects. So it's what we call synoptic view.

Intelligence is the ability to have a synoptic view. This disconnect, this ability to connect generates insights and insights allow you to reframe reality in a way that yields new information, which you can then leverage to obtain favorable outcomes from the environment.

In other words, intelligence renders you more self efficacious.

But what people fail to understand is that intelligence is like electrical energy. It's a resource. It's like electricity. It's a utility. It can be used by the positive aspects of your personality. Or it can be abused by the negative aspects of your personality. It's neutral. It's value neutral.

Not so the heart, what you call the heart, the heart is of course, a very simple pump.

And that's not what you meant to assume. But the heart, the seat of emotions or the proverbial seat of emotions, the metaphorical seat of emotions is not value neutral. It does reflect underlying beliefs, values, mores, social and cultural impositions like socialization, acculturation. It reflects personal history and so on. So it's a much more varied thing than intelligence.

The emphasis starting in the First World War, the emphasis on analytical intelligence, as represented by IQ, reduced is a part of a general trend of reductionism in psychology, which culminated with behaviorism in the 1960s, where people were considered no different to rats in a laboratory. And still are to a large extent, because we presume to conduct experiments from people, when actually you cannot conduct experiments on people, because they are the type of subject matter who is affected by the experiment. And also who changes from one day to the next.

Consequently, we can replicate fewer than 10% of psychological experiments, which means there is a replication or replicability crisis in psychology.

The heart is the core. It's very complex. And it's intimately connected to cognitions.

Nowadays, we consider emotions to be a type of cognition. When cognition is coupled with sensor with sensory input. That's what we call emotion. Emotion is reactive, exactly like many conditions. It's a subspecies of cognition.

So the mind and the heart are two sides, two flip sides of the same coin. Not as we used to think. They're two flip sides of the same coin.

We know, for example, that if we have a thought, it can induce an emotion. And if we have an emotion, it often causes us to think in certain ways. They're intimately connected.

So there's the mind, the heart, intelligence, the brain is a very difficult issue. Yes, it seems to be the simplest.

But actually, it is very controversial.

You see, we have this presupposition that the brain is the seat of identity and the seat of the mind. This is highly contentious, both in psychology, and in medicine and physiology.

I'll give you one example. Most of the hormones that regulate mood are not producing the brain. They're producing the intestines.

Serotonin, for example, is produced 91% in the intestines, not in the brain.

Another example is that the connection between the brain and the spine is not clear. We know, for example, the spinal fluid at night when you sleep cruises through the brain and cleanses it, cleanses it. It's like a cleaning crew in a high rise, you know, at night.

And yet we don't know why does this fluid come from the spine? And where does it go afterwards? Or what does it do afterwards with the allegedly the dirt?

We also have no idea about most functions of the brain. We have no idea what is sleep, what is dreaming.

We don't know very little about the brain, and yet with hubris, the glorious hubris, we claim that we know everything, there is almost everything there is to know. And we even administer drugs or medications that affect this very sensitive organ without knowing what the hell we're doing.

It's a very dangerous game on the philosophical level. Correlation is not causation.

We can establish correlations between mental events and physiological events, biochemical events, electro biochemical events, we can establish this connection. And this connection is very regular like the rising of the sun in the morning.

But we have no idea if the mental events cause the physiological events, or vice versa. They are correlated, but we have no idea about the causation.

For example, the brains of psychopaths are very different to the brains of normal people. In terms of gray matter, white matter, the striatum, the amygdala, most regions of the brain are very different. And the functioning of the brain is very different.

Yet, was this caused by the emergence of psychopathy in early childhood because psychopathy starts in early childhood? Was this called because the brain is forming and being shaped in early childhood? Was this psychopathy the cause of these malfunctions or abnormalities? Or was the abnormality already present?

At birth, we don't have an answer to this. We don't know what causes was.

And so I would be very careful about the brain. Extremely careful.

I am of the mind, and mind you, this is only speculation. I'm of the mind that the distinction between the brain and the rest of the body is both artificial and counterfactual.

I think if evolution and nature act in rational ways, if they adhere to scientific reasoning, so to speak, processing would be distributed, not centered in one organ.

I think most of our mental functions are distributed throughout the body.

And I think the focus on the brain is the exclusive seed of mental life, including cognition, motion analysis, you name it, has led us astray because we have neglected the rest of the body.

I fully believe that there is what used to be called distributed parallel processing. In other words, what we call today connection is, I believe, the whole human body is one giant laboratory of mental life.

Now, we know it's partly true, because for example, when we amputate people, there is phantom limb syndrome, where the person continues to feel the missing limb, long after the missing limb is gone.

It seems that there is some kind of processing going on on the local level. We know that the gastrointestinal system is a mind of its own. In essence, a second brain.

We know that many areas of the body are not connected to the brain. And yet, they continue to function perfectly.

We know there's a lot of information that doesn't reach the brain at all from parts of the body, big parts of the body.

And finally, we know that the brain consciously registers less than 5% of the information it receives, less than 5%.

And what the brain does, it generates on the fly models, simulations of reality.

When you're listening to me, when you're looking at me, luckily for you, you observe only or absorb only 5%.

What you're doing, you're creating your mind, an image in a simulation of Sanbhakti.

And when you're listening to me, because you listen only to 5% of what I'm saying, you're filling in the blanks.

There's a series of heuristic extrapolations in the brain, mathematical models. Everything is happening in your mind, not outside.

And I refuse to believe that all this is taking place only in your brain.

Because if we were to meet face to face, I would have an impact on multiple organs of you, not only on your brain, even if I don't touch you.

For example, I would immediately exchange with you a molecule, which contains 100 items of information about my genetic and immune system. That is totally unconscious, non deliberative.

So vice versa, I will send you my molecule, my molecule is from my body to yours.

Is this an interactive process from both? Yes, you're sending me a molecule, I'm sending you a molecule.

Whenever people meet, they exchange this molecule, all people in all settings.

But you see, people affect each other at a distance. For example, the field of the brain extends up to 100 meters. Another example, when a woman passes next to a man, and by the way, doesn't matter how she looks, and doesn't matter how old she is, shockingly, when any woman passes next to any man, regardless of age, looks or whatever, the level of testosterone production in the men increases by 40% for zero, she just has to pass, not to talk, not to look, not to interact in any way, just pass.

We are regulated by our environment all the time.

In certain personality disorders, the regulation extends even to the most basic and minimal functions, like reality, perception of reality, a sense of self worth.

And then we say that these people are disordered, because their external regulation is too much.

But what we don't realize, we are 99% regulated by the environment. That's why I am utterly against the counterfactual concepts of self, individual personality. I think these are nonsensical concepts that came from Germany and Austria.

And at the end of the 19th century, when these were authoritarian societies, with a unitary structure of government, and a unitary structure in the family. So they established a hierarchy in psychology, the psychology that we are studying today, that we are teaching today, is a 19th century German authoritarian thinking.

And so there is a self, the self is like the part of familius is the father of family is like the Kaiser, you know, is like the fear of the self is the leader.

It's a German thing. It simply reflects cultural mores and perceptions and a civilization that's no longer with us.

Today, we live in a network society, a distributed society. We must rewrite. I am proposing to rewrite psychology from scratch, getting rid of antiquated concepts like self and individual, and replacing them with self assembling networks of self space.

Much more fluid approach.


So we have to rewrite does that mean human changed, or, or the previous understanding was limited? How to approach this?

Everything, everything we do in science, we're known that everything we do in science is affected by our culture, cultural context of society, beliefs, beliefs and values we hold.

The people who created psychology were Germans.

Wund, Freud was in Austria, German sphere. This was these were authoritarian societies with a unitary center of control with rigid, hierarchical social structures. So they created a description.

So the human mind that looked the same.

So it was a limited version of psychology. It's a limited.

It's a culture, what we call culture bound. It's a culture dependent version of psychology.

And by rewriting, what do you mean, we need to fit into the mass humanity, not just based on one culture.

We know that people are not unitary. They are not fixed. They flow. People, a human being is a river.

Yeah, not a lake, not a pond. It's a river. It's like Heraclitus, Santa Fe, everything, everything flows, you can't enter the same river twice.

There's no such thing as self. At any, at any moment, in reaction to other people, in reaction to environmental cues, we tend to become different people.

You're not the same.

What's the role of psychology?

If I may ask, what's the role of psychology?

Sounds like there's no pattern. There's no way to trace.

We can't, you can make an inventory, can make an inventory of yourself states.

If I were to observe you long enough to your detriment, I would be able to map out to compile an inventory of your self-states. So I would know that you have eight or nine self-states.

And that when you are subject to humiliation, rejection and abandonment, your self-state is psychopathic, which is the case, which is the case in borderline personality disorder.

They become secondary psychopaths when they're rejected, abandoned, humiliated.

So it's possible to make a map of you.

Got it.

But to say that you are one, in all conditions, in all environments, with all people, all the time, and you will remain this way to the end of your days.

That is rank nonsense. It flies in the face of everything we know about human beings.

But we don't dare. We don't dare confront this lie at the core of psychology.


Still?

First of all, yes.

First of all, many people make a lot of money for this.

Okay. Yes.

They are vested, huge vested interests.

A lot of coaches, coaches, psychologists, therapists, everyone makes a lot of money.

It's industry.

Before I forgot, what do you, what's your understanding of consciousness?

Anything, just your, there are some problems that are unresolvable, that will never have an answer in principle. Never mind how much you know, how much you work.

Consciousness is like God. These are concepts that are meaningless in the sense that you cannot assign meaning to them.

For example, you cannot say true or false. They're meaningless.

Consciousness, I dare you and defy you to define consciousness. God, there is no procedure I can think of that can determine if God exists or not.

Similarly, there's no procedure I can think of that can help us define consciousness.

We don't, not only we don't know what it is, but we can never in principle know what it is.

And the reason is that we are both the raw material, the subject and the object, we're both observers. And we are observing us.

This creates effectively an infinite regression.

Because you're observing the observer, you're observing the observer. And there's no end to this.

This is the cycle never ending.

There's no end to this.

When you're trying to define consciousness, you engage in a process called introspection.

Yes, you're looking inside you look, you observe yourself.

Right.

But some someone must make this someone must do this observation. Who is doing it? Who's the one who's the one who's observing?

Well, another consciousness, only a conscious entity can observe. So if you're observing your own consciousness, there must be a meta consciousness, another consciousness, observing this consciousness.

And of course, it's infinite.

Yeah, that's the rabbit hole, right? It never ends.

As no, yes, there's no way to define consciousness.

Now we do know, of course, that we feel something. For example, we feel that we exist.

Right.

But even that is contestable. For example, how do I know that you're human? How do I know that when you tell me that you're feeling sad, you are feeling sad? And how do I know that what you define as sadness is my sadness?

In other words, we have a problem to access other people's minds.

We have to rely on self reporting, other people report, and we have to rely on the veracity and the accuracy of these reports, which is extremely bad science.

So the only mind we know for sure we have access to is ours. We have no access to any other mind.

And therefore, we cannot know anything about any other mind period.

The assumption that you and I have anything whatsoever in common is fallacious. End of story.

Because you can't prove it. And you can't falsify. It's not subject to scientific method.

Prove scientific.

Can I ask what's your understanding of science? And what's your understanding of spirituality? And how do you consider the relationship between the two?

How do you define them?

Science is a method to establish a possible way to get closer to the truth without ever attaining it.

Without ever attaining it.

Without ever attaining it. It's a method of organizing observations in a way that will yield predictions that we can then falsify.

In this predictions cannot be falsified. It's not science.

Science therefore relies crucially on the ability to be wrong.

Science is not about being right. It's about being wrong. That's not me. That's Karl Popper.

So science creates theories and then all the scientists, once there's a new theory, all the scientists are trying to destroy it. Trying to prove it wrong.

I mean, scientists have been trying to prove Einstein wrong for 100 years. Everyone is trying to prove Einstein. People were trying to prove Einstein wrong within a few years from the publication of relativity theory. They were measuring light around the sun. You know, they were trying to prove it wrong.

This is what science is about. Proving, proving theory is wrong.

To get closer to the truth. The belief is exactly.

The belief is that we eliminate what is wrong. Exactly like Sherlock Holmes said. Sherlock Holmes said, if you eliminate what is improbable, whatever remains, however unlikely, must be the truth.

So science is the same. Science is eliminated.

And by process of elimination, science believes that it's getting closer to the truth.

But science is a religion. It's a belief system. Science believes in the scientific method. Science believes in falsifiability. Science believes that scientists believe that observations have value and are somehow connected to reality and not, for example, to the human mind.

Because I can construct a case easily that everything we see is not real, but a simulation easily.

David Chalmers, the famous philosopher, even thinks this is the case.

But there's a series of beliefs that underlie science. And in this sense, it's a religion. It's a faith-based system.

Spirituality is the kind of thing that I avoid because it's indefinable, exactly like consciousness and God. I don't think anyone agrees on what is spiritual.

Any two people agree on what is spirituality. I think spirituality is the feeling of transcendence, the feeling that there is something beyond you and beyond the world, which cannot be captured with reason.

So spirituality is anything that cannot be captured with reason, but with, for example, belief, faith, faith in God, for example.

And so we have two competing systems.

One system uses reason to get closer to an alleged ostensible truth, which maybe doesn't exist at all. The very concept of truth is very contentious.

And the other system is based on a leap of faith, as Kierkegaard called it, is based on the belief that you can glean knowledge, even if it's only your knowledge, if you're syncretic, cannot be communicated, for example, in a mystical experience. You can glean knowledge, not using reason, using other means, many other means, even mushrooms.

But you can glean knowledge, not using reason.

So these are two, these two are in competition. And yes, they are mutually exclusive. Anyone who tells you that religion and science are compatible or has no idea what is religion has no idea what is science.

Science is not compatible with religion, because it's the religion of reason.

And all other doctrines and ways of thought and schools, they are not based on reason, what science is.

Additionally, science uses a language, a highly specific language called mathematics. But mathematics can be used and abused in spiritual disciplines. For example, in astrology, there's a lot of mathematics. So that's not a distinguishing feature.

So there's no way these two can be compatible or merged in whatsoever sense. Never ever.

Anyone who claims otherwise, there's no idea what he's talking about.

And I heard a very interesting thing. I heard that mathematics people, they have the highest chance to get the mental disorder. Is that true?

I'm not aware of this correlation. I may have missed some studies, but I'm not aware of this correlation.

Although there were very famous mathematicians like mesh, who was a schizophrenic. But there were mentally ill people in many other disciplines. So I'm not sure there's a necessary connection.

Mathematics is a language. It's the rudiments of language, it's a language reduced to its base elements.

It is extremely surprising, for example, why mathematics describes reality so efficiently. We have no idea, no one can give you an answer.

But it's a core problem in philosophy and in, for example, physics. Why is mathematics so efficient? We don't know. Why is logic so efficient?

And logic is the forerunner of arithmetic. And so why these languages, let's call them formal languages. Why formal languages are so efficient when the world is not formal?

The world is fuzzy. The world is fuzzy. The world is crazy. The world is chaotic.

Yeah. The world blends and moves. The world is more like smoke.

And yet, a highly rigid, formal set of languages captures the world perfectly.

How is this possible? We don't know the answer. We don't know the answer. And it's a huge argument in philosophy and science.

Yeah, this underlying code that seems running, running this chaotic world.

So Carl Gustav John said in his 1959 interview, and he said, the only real danger that exists is man himself. And we are pitifully unknown of it. We know nothing of man far too little.

That's from 1959.

Now, do you agree with him? Or anything changed for better or for worse?

Nothing much.

As far as the community, the essence of what it is to be a human, what is, what is the human experience? I don't think much has changed.

For the very simple reason that I mentioned earlier, you cannot really communicate it. No one has access to another mind and many, many experiences are so idiosyncratic, so individual that you cannot communicate these experiences.

For example, if right now, because you're exposed to me, you will have a mystical experience. You will not be able to communicate it to me. Never mind how many words you will use.

So this will remain forever trapped in your mind, never get out.

So the essence of what it is to be a human is still remains a mystery and will remain a mystery forever.

Because of this barrier in communication, we have a concept in philosophy called intersubjectivity. It is the belief that people somehow, based on similarities and based on a contract and agreement, can somehow develop empathy for each other. And intersubjectivity is highly dubious, highly dubious, to use a British understanding.

So I don't think, I think each one of us is solipsistic as an island. And I don't think there are any bridges between these islands and no cruise ships going between these islands. We're totally islands. We are, as islands do, we are embedded in an ocean. And the ocean is this collective, what we can call mankind or humanity.

There are dynamics which characterize masses of people. Many of these dynamics are negative. For example, the Nazi party or Trump supporters on January 6.

So many collective dynamics are very negative, mob dynamics, crowd dynamics. But many of these dynamics are conducive to survival. And they do elevate us beyond the confines and the limits of a single human body.

So this is the ocean in which all the islands are embedded. Jung tried to cope with it. He called it collective unconscious. Don't ask. Jung, by the way, suffered for five years from psychosis. He was hospitalized. He was a mentally ill, very mentally ill person.

So he turned up with all kinds of UFOs and he was a conspiracy theorist, don't ask. But he had a few insights, a few great insights, of course, mixed with a lot of trash.

So one of his insights was the insights of archetypes.

Another insight was the insight of collective unconscious. What he was trying to say is that we all share a commonality which transcends our individual minds. And we operate within this lattice, within this network, sometimes unawares. And it is this network, probably, that determines us to a very large extent.

Now, in the 1960s, there was a school called Object Relations School. And they said that there's no such thing as self.

But what happens is we are the assembly, or the assemblage, or the compendium of our relationships with others. So we are the end result, the culmination of our relationships with everyone in our lives.

This is what they call it, object relations, like relations with, no, by the way, in psychology, the word object means another person. Just shows you what psychologists are made of.

Psychopaths, all of them, especially professors of psychology.

So in answer to, in a very, very long answer to your question, I believe that we should, to find meaning and significance and direction and all these things, we should not look to the human body or human mind, but we should look to collective dynamics.

I think it's another mistake in Western psychology, psychology in the West.

Again, you see the influence of culture and society. Western societies are individualistic.

So the psychology is the psychology of the individual.

Yes.

Well, actually, I believe that 90%, if not more of the relevant dynamics are not individual at all.

They're social, they're collective.

Yeah, holistic.

Yes.

But you see, again, the effect of culture and society on so-called science. That's why I don't think psychology is science.

It's pseudoscience.

So you approve science, but you don't approve the psychology in this science system.

I'm a physicist. I'm a physicist.

There's a new theory that I developed in physics that is not becoming mainstream. And I hope would be of interest to people.

What is that?

It's a theory. It's the equivalent of, it's like a relativity theory, but on different premises. So it's a global theory.

It's a theory of everything. We can go into it later.

But I have multiple personality. I have half of my mind, which is a physicist.

So I'm used to rigorous exact science and to the scientific method and so on. And then I'm teaching psychology and psychology is not a science.

Psychology is a pseudoscience. No, it's a pseudoscience. It's a form of literature. It's a belief.

It's a religion.

I would call it literature. It's descriptive.

The greatest psychology to have ever lived, psychologist is the, no one exceeds those fears. Not for, not anyone, not the modern, you know, but psychologists want money like everyone. And I want to be respected like everyone.

So they pretend to be scientists because when you pretend to be a scientist, you get a lot of grunt money and you can also make a lot of money because you're an authority. So you can charge people money for treatment, for this, for that. Also, you get to wear lab coats. You don't white lab coats and you look a lot like a medical doctor. So it's good for the ego.

And so modern psychologists, when you go to universities, Ivy league universities and so on, and you go to labs, psychology labs, and they look like medical labs. What are they studying there? It's nonsense. Experimental psychology is unmitigated trash and nonsense. There's nothing you can learn from it.

And none of the experiments almost is replica. It's total blood. It's, I can't be, it's a scam. It's a scam. It's a scam. It's a scam. It's a scam. I have to be blunt.


Note it. We have this recording. People will hear about it. I hope they can be aware whether they agree or not just to be aware.

You mentioned in your, one of the latest video, dystopia, sorry, dystopian. We're so lost than ever because we enter into an uncharted territory. We're so lost.

And I, I said exactly the same thing in the book, by the way, again, not to promote my book, but I just want to say the resignation.

And there are all types of issues. There's all types of challenges and we seems to try to deal with them. And among them, I wanted to particularly mention the depression rate.

You mentioned the mental issue has skyrocketed while list material life. We're being the best situation ever. The wealth, all this omnipresent technology.

If you have to find out what are the costs, the root costs, not the laws, the regulation, we need to build another building or rocket. I guess that's part of the psychology as well, because all this is by human.

What are the causes?

Periods of transition in human history are common. There's nothing special about our transition, because we're in a period of transition. There's nothing special about our transition by virtue of the fact that it's a transition.

Transitions are normal.

There are, however, two distinguishing features that have never ever before happened in human history. Never.

Number one, we are experiencing transition in every field of life.

You had periods before where there was a transition in gender relations, for example. There were periods like this.

Transitions from matriarchy to matriarchy happened a few times in human history. Or vice versa. You, for example, in North Africa, there was transition from matriarchy to matriarchy.

So this transition happened. You had periods where people transitioned from villages and farms to cities, urbanization, very traumatic transition, makeup transition. You had periods where people adopted new technologies, which were disruptive technologies and altered their ways of life in fundamental ways. These also happened a lot, even in the Middle Ages.

We think the Middle Ages were stagnant and so on. Actually, Middle Ages were a ferment, a hotbed of technological innovation.

Of course, in the 19th century, industrial revolutions. We had all these. Never in human history did we have political transitions.

In the 18th century, we began to transition from monarchies and empires to democracies, the French Revolution, the French Revolution, the revolutions of 1848. So each transition we had before, never in human history. We had all the transitions at once, which is what we're having today.

We have all the transitions, all of them at once.

Gender transitions, political transitions, technological transitions, you name it, we're transitioning.

We are not prepared for this. It's too much change.

I think Toffler predicted this in his books, the Future Shock.

This is the first distinguishing feature and there is a much, much more pernicious distinguishing feature today that never happened before in human history.

In previous periods of transition, some institutions were affected and destroyed or replaced, but most institutions stayed intact. They remained functioning.

So in the 14th century, when you had the Black Death in Europe, and everything was falling apart, the family remained intact. The church was there. Your feudal lord still remained on the land. The monarchy prevailed.

In other words, even though you were experiencing as an individual, you were experiencing turmoil, revolution and transition. The institutions around you, your community, your church, your feudal system, the monarchy, everything around you was stable. There was stability.

The transition was limited to some institutions in some aspects.

But 90% of institutions and dimensions of existence remained fixed and stable. Inflation was close to zero for 300 years in Europe. Even prices were stable.

Imagine that the price of bread in the 16th century was the same like in the 18th century.

And this now is the first time in human history that all our institutions without a single exception have collapsed.

We don't have families. We don't have friends.

In 1980, a typical person, according to studies, and 10 friends. Today, the number is one. We don't have families. We don't have friends. We don't have marriages. We don't have the church. We don't have the state. We don't trust experts. We don't believe the authorities. There's nothing. There's no island of stability. There are no institutions.

You are on your own, totally. You are experiencing as an individual the greatest by far moment of transition in human history with multiple transitions in everything.

Your gender relations, your marriage, your, I mean, you name it, your transitioning technology, your own transformation, pandemics, wars, you name it.

And yet you're all alone because no institution around you is functioning. And the institutions that sit there, you don't trust them.

Including all the authorities.

Including all the authorities.

The next person.

And this is the first time in human history.

These two things are the first time in humans.

Multiple transitions. I would say all pervasive ubiquitous transitions and no supportive institutions.

So you are utterly on your own, atomized, isolated, alienated, totally on your own.

So people resort to fantasy because they can't tolerate reality. They can't bear reality in the world.

So they retreat to fantasy and they create technologies that encourage fantasy soon to come, the metaverse, which is the ultimate form of fantasy.

They retreat.

They're running away. They don't want to live in reality. Reality is too much.

Too brutal. Too unpredictable.

People don't tolerate, people have low tolerance for uncertainty.

The uncertainty now is maximal because even institutions are not there anymore.

They can keep up with all these changes. Too much.

They cannot keep up and they cannot look up to role models, experts, authorities, institutions, God, church, family, community, I mean, someone, friends, something. They can't. There's nobody there. You're all alone. You're floating in a bubble. That's it. You're on your own.

If bad things happen to you, they happen to you alone.

So, of course, people have online forums and things that it's simulation. It's nonsense. It's not real. We know, for example, that face-to-face communication, pressing the flesh, skin touching, is infinitely better impacts than any forum online.

Yes.

So, you kind of answered my next question already. I was going to ask you the role of this.

I have a tendency to do this. It's not my subject.

I'm not the right person.

You have the foresight to answer my question in advance. You know what I'm going to ask?

The omnipresent technology. What's the role?

And you definitely answered me already.

I would say, just to complete the sentence, I would say that depression and anxiety are reactions to this world.

And the compensation is technology. Technology has become compensatory.

This is another transition. I can enumerate right now. I can make a list of 50 major transitions that each and every human being is undergoing right now.

We cannot avoid this transition. They're all of them.

On a typical period in history, you had two or three transitions.

Now, there's 50 that I can think of. And if I think very hard, probably 100.

One of these transitions is the role of technology. The main role of technology in human history until the 1990s.

So that's a very long period. We're talking technology. Technology started about 30-40,000 years ago when you took a flint, when you took a stone, and you made it into a knife.

So tool making started 40-50,000 years ago. So technology is old. Until 1990, the main role of technology was to extend your body. So if you had a knife, it extended your hand. If you were riding a car, it extended your legs.

Yes. If you're reading a book, it extended your mind.

I mean, it was all about extending the body.

In 1990, there was a massive shift. Technology was no longer about extending the body. It was about escaping reality.

It's a massive shift.

May I jump in a little question.

What's the trigger for this shift?

Reality became unbearable.

Unbearable since the 1990s.

It started before.

It took time for technologies to evolve.

But I would say that around the 1970s, life began to become unbearable.

In the United States, you had the Watergate scandal, collapse of the trust in authorities, in the media, in universities, and so on. Then the family collapsed.

Starting in the 1960s and 70s, the divorce rate went up to 50%. Then promiscuity, not agentic promiscuity, but promiscuity as a measure of desperation, made it very difficult to form relationships and couples destroyed intimacy skills. So relationships deteriorated.

Today, for example, the rate of marriage is 50% less than in 1990. And the people are not compensating for this by, for example, poverty.

So the general number of relationships is much down. Of course, childbearing, everything is totally collapsed.

So in the 1970s, an existential crisis started, it took 20 years for technology to catch up. But you had the initial harbingers of technology.

For example, you had dating apps in the 1970s already. So computers, of course, 1980, you had Apple, 2C, you had the first apples. Before that, you had Commodores and Ataris. So you had you had harbingers, you could see it coming, you could see it coming.

The internet effectively went public in 1990, more or less. So it was all about escaping reality. Technology stopped, no longer was concerned about extending our capacities and our bodies, but became much more concerned about allowing us to escape reality.

That's the fundament of the purpose of technology. That's the problem.

Today, yes. I would say if you look at technology, first of all, innovation stopped completely. I know it sounds bizarre, but innovation actually stopped in more or less than 1960s. I know it, for example, from physics. Nothing really new since 1980. I know it from psychology. Nothing really new since 1990. I know it from other fields. Nothing really new has happened in the past few decades.

Even if you look at this, it's almost the latest apple.

Yeah. All the technologies, all the technologies in this thing are from the 1960s, 50s and 40s.

The core technology.

All the technologies, chip making, GPS, all there's not one technology in this iPhone that was invented after 1960. Not one.

We are repackaging. All we are doing is repackaging and this gives the illusion of innovation.

Even in medicine, I would say, innovation stopped in the 1980s.

Everyone says they were just invented. They were not just invented. They started 20 years ago.

So innovation is dying all over. You cannot innovate if you're not in reality.

Then most people are no longer in reality.

What is the reality?

Reality sucks. They're coming.

Reality are these transitions.

Reality is the lack of institutions. Reality is the disintegration of everything you can rely on and everything you've ever believed.

Reality is terrifying. Absolutely terrifying. I don't blame people for running away from it. Dissociating. Entertainment is a big thing, precisely because.

What do you see out of this 50 or 50,000 transitions? What do you see?

I would say now, what do you see?

You see, the reason I'm pessimistic is because the transitions of the past were very clear. They were from less to more, for example, less freedom to more freedom. They led somewhere. They were what I call directional transitions. They had a vision.

Not all transitions were good. For example, they transitioned to communism. Very bad idea. They transitioned to narcissism and fascism.

Not all transitions were good, but all transitions were clear.

It was very clear where they're going.

The transitions today are fuzzy. They're not clear.

For example, I will ask you, where is the relationship between men and women going?

It's not clear.

If you go to Afghanistan, it's very clear. In Afghanistan, there's a transition. It's a bad, evil, vile transition, but it's clear.

It's clear.

Women are becoming third-class citizens. We don't have this vision. We don't have this clarity.

The transitions are fuzzy. They're all over the place. They're living nowhere. It's a bloody mess.

People disagree on the transition because when there was a transition to communism, or to Nazism, or to fascism, or even to feminism, there was a broad disagreement. It reflected a broad agreement.

For example, first wave feminism and second wave feminism. Many men agreed with it. Many men supported it. There was a consensus between men and women, which is why women obtained rights and so on because men supported it.

But when you go to third wave feminism and fourth wave feminism, which are today, there is no consensus. It's a war. Men don't agree. Men are fighting back.

Women become more and more militant and angry and violent.

So the transitions deteriorated because they had no consensus. They are non-concentral transitions. They are power plays. We are talking about power. Who has more power? That's a very bad state of things because humanity crucially relies on cooperation.

We are cooperative species and cooperation relies on being able to somehow obtain a consensus.

Yes. If we fail in this, we will disintegrate as a species.

Now we think we're very arrogant species. I think we are here forever.

Let me tell you, no species was more successful than the dinosaurs. Dinosaurs occupied every ecosystem under the sea, over the sea, in land, on trees, you name it. Dinosaurs were in the air. They were on the savannah. They were in jungles. They were on rocks. Dinosaurs ruled the earth in the truest sense. They occupied every ecosystem. There were big dinosaurs and small dinosaurs with wings, without wings, with scales. I mean, you name it. And they're no longer with us, are they?

So humans shouldn't think that they are here forever and never mind what happens. Human evolution is no longer through the genes. It's through culture. Culture is the new human evolution.

And if we cannot reach a consensus, this is a good definition of mutation. A mutation in genetic evolution is when there is a change usually in a gene, in a gene doesn't have to be, but usually in a gene. A change that doesn't sit well with the rest.

So this creates a conflict inside the organism. We are in this situation now.

We have developed a series of mutations, cultural mutations, and we can't get over it.

If we don't settle these internal disputes and reach some consensus, we're doomed. We are doomed as a dinosaur. Absolutely.

We're doomed.


Is there any clue about how to settle this doomed situation? Any clue?

The first thing is to realize that we are now at a serious peril of extinction. And I'm not talking about climate change. I for one doesn't think that climate change really threatens us. I think what it means is that we will have to rebuild many cities and we will have to adapt. We have to invent new technologies. Of course, that will be a huge transition. But I don't think it threatens our existence.

Okay. So it becomes warmer and hotter and there are extreme weather events. We'll survive. This we will survive, but we will not survive.

Conflicts and transitions, which are fundamental to who we are, to our identity, and which we cannot settle concentrically. For example, between men and women. The conflict, the irritability, the friction between men and women is not allowing men and women to have relationships.

And so when they don't have relationships, they don't have children. This is a real threat. It's a media threat.

And so the real threat was the real threat in one sentence.

The real threat is that if we don't reach a consensus on where our transitions should end, where they should go, then we will no longer be able to collaborate.

And I give an example. Men and women don't collaborate on making children anymore. That's the statistic. So if we don't collaborate, we're doomed. We will perish. We are not stronger than the dinosaurs. We're much weaker. We are much less successful as a species than the dinosaurs. We don't live in deserts. They did. We don't live under the sea. They did. Yes. They were much more successful than us.

Yes.

They're done.

Wow. Almost the last sip of the mega pint. I didn't even realize.

I time it. I time it judiciously and sagaciously. I can see that. I finish my wine when the interview is finished. It's like an hourglass, you know, with a scent.

I can see this is a routine. Very good at it.

So the last sip. How do we make this last sip worth it? Meaningful. That's up to you.

You're the driver's. I'm at your disposal. We're in the drive.

What really what question really wants you bothers you.

Questions that you kind of never everything I asked are part of my questions that really triggered me to find answers. And why don't you contribute a question? I mean, to yourself.

Okay, no, I should ask you actually. What is your main message in the digital mind of tomorrow in your book? What's the main message?

You have to distill it into a few sentences. What are you trying to say? What are you trying to do?

Okay, I actually started to figure it out, to be honest. I think down the core, I'm trying to call for more humans. I found we're less and less humane. And we don't conduct human thinking. And I think that's a true threat for everything, because we're the one, as you mentioned, direct everything. If we don't clap, if we kind of lost our human feature, our human traits, that is irreplaceable. And we're in real doomed danger.

Yes, so you basically agree with me.

Yes, you're also saying that humans should collaborate and work together and pose a better future and so on. And if they don't, then we don't.

We should collaborate, not just between human among human, we should collaborate with the nature, it should be a whole holistic system.

Because we all kind of interact with one another, one object to another object, we can get out of this cycle. And I can see any of us can be on this planet independently.

So yes, I agree with you.

It's a good point, because I think we have transitioned from life centered civilizations to a death cult.

What is a death cult? The death cult is when you invest your emotions, material goods, you're emotionally attached to your smartphone.

I saw people mourning the loss of a smartphone more than they grieved over a broken relationship. Seriously, I saw it. They were much more devastated when they lost a smartphone than when they lost a boyfriend.

We were invested in material goods which are dead. The objects are dead. It's a death cult.

And so we have transitioned into a death cult, and nature is alive.

When we had abandoned life as the organizing principle of civilization, and instead we introduce materialism, which is a death cult, then of course naturally we gave up on nature because nature is life.

You cannot monetize nature. You cannot own nature. You cannot trade nature. All these activities are about death. They are fanatic. They are about death, trading, buying, selling, owning, they're all about death.

And now we are beginning to treat each other as objects, even in psychology. We call people objects. We're beginning to treat it as so.

If you're an object to me, I can own you. I can sell you, I can buy you, I can bribe you.

You know, everything becomes a transaction. The same way I own my glass of wine or my television, I can own you.

We are commoditizing each other. We are beginning to treat each other as consumer goods, as consumables.

So we consume each other, and then we dump each other. We dispose of each other. We discard each other. The same way you discard an old television because it's a new model.

No. Everything, consumerism is a serious poison. And it is the enemy of a true stewardship of nature.

Consumerism is the opposite of nature. It's about death. Nature is about life.

So we cut forests. Forests are made of living organisms. They're known as trees.

When we now know the trees, communicate, we know the trees, you know, do almost everything except walk. We cut them down. Cut them down because we need to convert them into dead objects. Then we sell these dead objects, and the people who buy these dead objects, they're made happy because they have a dead object in their living room.

I'll tell you what creepy this is. We leave a seriously creepy civilization, you know, where we are surrounded by death, and we find it extremely stimulating and wonderful.

We leave 31% of us. 31% are lifelong singles. We'll never have another person in their home. We'll never have a living so they have cats or dogs. They don't have other human beings in their lives.

But they have televisions and smartphones and cars, and that makes them happy. Death makes them happy. We celebrate this. It's horrible. Horrible.

And here's one thing.

If you celebrate death, death will celebrate you. If you celebrate this, there will come a moment that you will internalize this, and you will die, and death will celebrate it.

Death will celebrate you if you let it in your house.

And we have let death into our abode, into our homes.

And it's not the kind of guest who goes away.

Cheers to the last sip of mega pie. Thank you.

Wow. Thank you. Thank you for this thought-provoking, bold sharing.

Thank you. It was a pleasure. It was a pleasure to talk to you. I'm going to turn off the recording now.

Okay. I'm going to ask you something, okay?

Sure. Recording stopped. Heard?

Recording stopped.

I suggest you stop your recording.

Can you?

Sure.

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Lonely=Strong? Age of Alone: New Normal

Loneliness and aloneness are becoming increasingly common in today's society, with many people lacking intimate relationships, friends, and even engaging in less sex. This has led to various coping mechanisms, such as busyness, creativity, magical thinking, and engaging in online communities or social media. However, these strategies often fail to provide true fulfillment and can lead to mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. The growing trend of loneliness and aloneness is difficult to reverse, as people become entrenched in their ways and develop an ideology around their solitude.


What’s Wrong with Our Dystopian World (Starts at 05:56)

The text is a rant about the state of the world, discussing various societal issues and expressing dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs. It covers topics such as internet stickiness, narcissistic behavior, societal norms, censorship, and the decline of traditional values. The author expresses a bleak outlook on the future of humanity and the world.


Solitude: Why Are We So Lonely, Alone? (with Benny Hendel)

Professor Sam Vaknin discusses the increasing trend of people choosing to be alone, with half the adult population in the United States being single or in short-term relationships. He attributes this to factors such as technological self-sufficiency, the hollowing out of family functions, overcrowding, societal collapse, and a preference for being alone when needs are met. Additionally, Vaknin mentions the rise in depression and anxiety rates, which can lead to social isolation. He warns that this trend could lead to social unrest and violence on a global scale.


Relationships Inauthentic, Will Always Fail (Sartre's "Being and Nothingness", SECOND LECTURE)

The text discusses Sartre's views on desire, consciousness, and freedom. Sartre introduces the concept of desire as motivated by a lack or absence, and discusses the inherent contradiction in desire. He also delves into the nature of consciousness and the limitations of freedom. The text explores Sartre's ideas on authenticity and ethics, and his belief that values are auto-generated through individual choices. The author reflects on Sartre's contributions and his impact on philosophical discourse.


Four Steps: Change Yourself to Change the World (with Assc Direct)

The guest advises people to reestablish meaningful connections with real people to combat the depersonalization and derealization caused by social media. He suggests starting small with five interactions a day and gradually building up. He also advises trusting judiciously and creating a distributed network of trust. Lastly, he recommends discarding beliefs and behaviors that are not truly one's own and focusing on the essence of oneself.


Narcissist and YOU: Tour the Nightmare (with Monique Rigney)

The text is a conversation between two individuals discussing various topics, including narcissism, memory, and societal issues. They touch on the impact of trauma on memory, the role of victimhood in society, and the decline of human interaction in the digital age. The conversation also delves into the impact of feminism and the changing dynamics between men and women.


Testosterone, Oxytocin, Dopamine: 3 Ages of Civilization

The text discusses the three ages of civilization, each characterized by a different biochemical: testosterone, oxytocin, and dopamine. It explores how these biochemicals correspond to social and cultural structures and behaviors, such as patriarchy, romanticism, and addiction. The transition from one age to another is described as causing disorientation and societal changes. The dopamine age is depicted as an age of hedonism, atomization, and addiction, with significant implications for human behavior and society.


Narcissism’s Enemies: God, Work, Family (Prophets of Narcissism: Christopher Lasch, 1979, (lecture)

The lecture discusses Christopher Lasch and his views on narcissism, the decline of society, and the role of religion. Lasch criticizes capitalism, consumerism, and the intellectual elite, advocating for a return to traditional values and religious faith. He also discusses the impact of progress and the decline of religion on society. The lecture ends with a preview of the next lecture in the series.


Nothingness and You in Buddhism and Daoism

Professor Sam Vaknin discusses his philosophical system of life, called nothingness, as an antidote to narcissism. He draws from Eastern influences, particularly Buddhism and Taoism, to explore the concepts of hope, love, and success, and their toxic effects on individual freedoms and authentic being. He emphasizes the interdependence of nothingness and existence, and the role of emptiness in generating value and function in the universe. His philosophy is a synthesis of Western and Eastern thinking, aiming to provide a new perspective on life.

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